IHBF: Comments on Baby Sit Mode.

I am sure some of you noticed when new people have tried to comment,  their comments have not been posted immediately and there is a reason for that.

About a week ago, I can’t give you the exact date, I could, but I can’t, I received some interesting comments and by the luck of god, they went to the SPAM folder and didn’t post. For some reason this person took her anger out here on Angel from the Jewish Journal.

Before I go on any further, I want to make it clear that I am not bragging, unfortunately people do not have common sense and like to test boundaries, so I need to set some and let people know, yes, if you come here and threaten me or another blogger or anyone else for that matter and talk about an innocent child, there will be consequences.  It’s a shame it came to this, but people think they have the right to take matters in their own hands.

With out getting in to the details of the comments, I can say the comments contained threats, yes threats, like I’m going to find you and F you up and kill you type of threats, they targeted Angel’s child and laughed at her personal stories that she shared on her blog, called her and my self a few choice names. The comments were more directed at Angel than my self, why this person underestimated me to use this place to flex what an asshole she was how tough she thought she was, I know that person is regretting it now.
I don’t care about the names that I was called and Angel doesn’t either, my goodness, stick and stones may break my bones but your names you call me will not hurt me.  It took a real bitch tough girl to attack an innocent child and make threats that she was going to harm a blogger for what? Because we called Lynn Hudson out? Really?  I wonder, was it really worth it after all for her?

I know that Lynn does not, let me say this carefully, tell her commenter’s to please not post on other blogs on her behalf and stick up for her, because I saw someone tell her a comment they posted here and she thanked them. Problem was,  the comment don’t exist, what was written and copied here wasn’t offensive and would of been happy to post, but the comment was never made.  However,  I can say I know Lynn would not want anyone to go to other blogs and make threats or talk about their or anyone’s children.

When I received the comments, I contacted WP, after they got back to me, I did what I was told, then I contacted Angel and she sent it to her legal team that she has warned before, she has at her disposal.  It’s been taken care of as of this morning. I can report that law enforcement is involved and I will say no more at this point. If you haven’t seen someone comment in a while at your  favorite site, you know why she has not been around. This is why I had to hold off on posting this until today. Understand? You do.

I want to tell everyone out there,  using the internet to make threats or making threats through the internet,  see Cyber Harrassment Laws  (yes harassment, when you continuously make threat after threat it’s harassment at that point also)  is against the law. Don’t think using a web mask will protect you, law enforcement will find you. Not only that, I will not tolerate it here.  To add insult to injury, the person went and said something about an innocent child. What a bitch tough girl, I bet she thought she was on top of the world. No, I am not talking about someone disagreeing with me and calling me a Bitch. Nothing like that. Making threats. I take those seriously because why go out your way to mask your self and use 4 different location addresses.

Thankfully my comments  were on baby sit mode, because I started to get some comments with personal information of Lynn’s.  Example of one type ; similar to white page listings with her name, age, D.O.B. home number, who knows if it was the right one, it wasn’t under “Lynn” for her first name, I will say no more about the details, but it doesn’t matter, it’s the principal, it could be her information and if  wasn’t,  some fruit loop may think it is and call an innocent person up and harass her.  Yes, I do have a problem with Lynn, BUT I will not post anyone’s personal information or allow anyone to post anyone’s personal information here.  I don’t care if it’s public record, if that is what tickles your fancy, this is not the place to do it at, besides what the hell is the matter with you to want to post someone’s business like that?  No, I am NOT saying this so Lynn will thank me, so don’t go there. If you don’t get why I am saying this, then that is your problem, not mine.

I do not care if other bloggers encourage people to send sympathy cards to housewives,  stand in front of a housewife’s family business and take a picture then post it after they bitch how much they hate that house wife, have someone take a picture of a housewife’s building they live in then post it even if it’s;  i.e the wrong building or the one next to it, the photo was taken down due to complaints, if the listing was in the N.Y. Times Real Estate Page.  I DO NOT CARE, I will not let you or anyone one else post personal someone’s private information such as; i.e a blogger, commenter, or housewife (‘s) home address, phone number, the person’s legal name if not already not known. I can not say this enough. I don’t care that you care that I already said it, I will say it again.

I also ask that no one EVER go to a blog and harass someone on my behalf, I can speak for my self. I have my own format where I can voice my my opinions or concerns.  I highly suggest other people get their format if they don’t like what people blog about or think it’s their place to tell people what they should be talking about on their site in the comment section. Don’t like it? Don’t read, leave the people who like it alone.

For those of you who think that I have you blocked, that is not true.  I have my comments on baby sit mode because I don’t’ have the time to baby  24/7.  I have the comments set at; the person must have the previous submitted comment approved. Some times, when a person is approved, they do end up in Spam, I don’t know if it’s because of a filter or what, I will find out. I am not saying that everyone is like the assholes who left the offending comments, then again, you never know because I never would of thought that a certain person would leave such comments because she was here before. Anyone can put, “I love this site” then I approve, next thing you know they are posting things that they shouldn’t be. I do not ask my guests to police my blog or have any self appointed junior administrators either.  I don’t mind debating with people, as long as there is no name calling and it’s respectful. I know how it feels to go to a blog and try to make a valid point with out being a bitch and still get shut down, I get it, but I am not going to let people walk all over me either.

I did post the comments that were in Spam that I was not aware of, but for someone to say yesterday that they tried to post here all day and I didn’t post their comments is not true. Yes, there was a couple comments I replied to with out posting the comment. I didn’t post it because the person was hostile and I didn’t know how far they would go with the next comment, I didn’t have time to babysit that night because I was working.  For those who want to say well look at the people who post here, look what they say. Yes, look at them people who post here, they are not posting anyone’s private information or threatening me or another blogger physical harm for talking about their favorite blogger or talking about someone’s innocent child. No, I am not blaming Lynn for this. Even if Lynn did ask people to do this, which I am pretty confident she would never ask anyone to threaten anyone, that person should no better, no excuse. Everyone is responsible for their own actions.  If I or someone else on another site pisses you off, go to another blog then. I am not begging anyone to come here, I don’t want people to come here if they hate it.

In case you have me confused with someone else;                                                       I am not here to get fame or get upset because a housewife didn’t notice me at an event. In other words, my ego is set aside.                                                                I am not here to run a social club                                                                                    I am not here in hopes a career will happen for me from blogging, I think I’m on the wrong track, starting with the URL and title. I can go on, but in case anyone forgot, the reason I have this blog is to vent my frustration about Bethenny Frankel, unfortunately,  it has been about Lynn Hudson lately.

Some of you may think I’m a total bitch, and this post is bitchy. You know what, when some one flex’s their internet muscles like they did and talks about an innocent child it never makes anyone happy except the people who get thrilled by doing  it because they wouldn’t of done it in the first place. I hope they like bologna sandwiches, I hear that’s on their menu tonight.

I do thank the people who do stop by and read here, I am not going to say that I don’t appreciate that people actually read what I write because I do, I am simply saying, I will kiss no one’s ass and I don’t expect anyone to kiss mine either. However, I do expect you to act like an adult and not get your self in trouble and make threats and target innocent children, there are consequences, don’t underestimate people. For those of you who think I’m just saying this, I will never say, “do it” or “try me”. I will say to you by warning you,  if you do,  I will take them personally and have it taken care of it like this incident was.  I have no tolerance for that behavior, besides how old are you, (??) running around threatening people because you don’t like a blog or someone talked about your favorite blogger? Grow up.

Have a wonderful weekend, I am almost done with my Bethenny posts.